C.I.N.T.A

L.O.V.E.......it is important??..or just to play around.......ermmm...yeah right we need love...but the point now..what kind of love???....actually there have a lot of meaning of LOVE....it's depends on the person to describe it...for me...ok now we focus love between human.....for me love need loyal.....trust.....and scarified....and the most important must lie in our AQIDAH...means...if we really love somebody..we must respect it..we must know what we have do and don't....don't touch each other....don't take easy about their principe .....and respect their family....love their family before love him/her....love do not mean we lost our mind....  but share it...must have the distance  between each other..because we not have any legal relationship....if u really love someone...respect it until you really get 'HER/HIM"...means married......we must protect him/her...but no control it!!.....trade him/her as our friend...when we trade it like that..we more comfortable...easy to share...to give opinion....and more close....and the important is we be our self..not to be someone else .....accept what they have...anyone have weakness..anyone do  wrong...no body perfect... but the different is..how we overcome it.????....give it change.........

but difficult to me to find person that i want....men always same...not think serious...just  take easy....and not respect women....always need women lisent  to them....so jealous...not reasional...what the????
plzzz.....women now a day..not like20 /30/40 years ago.....men must  remember..if they argue about responsibility of women as wife/mom at home..that must do all thing....cook,wash,clean..and so on....what responsibility of men/husband?????!!!!...... just go work???....heelllloooooo......now women also working....why they work??....to help husband......because if only depends on husband salary..do u think  it enough???..i dont think so....so plz...help you wife also at home...because she already help you.....to be a good men..they must good in ISLAM...not to be ustaz..but at least...know about islam..so that they will guide their wife/childs/family......

so...to find that kind of men like that....no easy..person that can help their wife at home....oh no......so..... difficult....and i always doa...that i will get the best men for me....i will wait...and hope my doa become truth.....ALLAH know better what the best for me....amin.........